Muslim people are not "good" Muslims - most of them - only those with beard and niqab or those with a pure heart and love for Allah are good, included Christians and Jews!
Most Muslims complain about their situation but don't see that they are part of the problem.
They have abandoned islam and follow the traditions of their society again. AND won't you Believe it - most of them don't want to follow Islam and get closer to Allah.
It ain't much you can do about it, but be patient, perhaps do dawah on Internet, or you can move there and start a practice. They are also very afraid of pshychologists, even though Islam IS but psychology all the time. Many don't know much. they are uneducated.
Don't bother so much about them. Bother about your neighorhood and where you live. Start with yourself, keep up the good work and then continue with your family. After a long time when your kids are grown up you will have time inchallah to do something. Do what you can - and don't get frustrated. It isn't Worth the pain.